15 - Afterword - Lucky to be here.
The title of this book (& web site) comes from the fact that I am
extremely lucky to be here.
The luck came in many forms, but there were two major ones. The first was meeting
Gabi in Freiburg and her mention of the name Skiathos at a point in my life
where I could have gone anywhere. Had this meeting not happened, the course
of my life would definitely have been totally different. Better, perhaps? I
cannot imagine so, but who knows?
The second piece of luck was surviving being electrocuted with over 20,000 volts
of electricity. How I survived this, I will never know. This is described in
detail in the chapter called “Fun”, so I won’t go over it
again here.
Lida and I have always felt lucky. So many things could have gone wrong - but
didn’t. We hadn’t set out with a specific plan in mind and often
just played it by ear, letting our intuition guide us. Mostly it proved to be
the right thing to do, and the few mistakes we made were lessons to guide us
on to alternative paths. Luck is a strange thing, and can cut both ways, but
we have always availed ourselves of opportunities if they presented themselves.
I am a firm believer in not planning too much but waiting to see what life presented
us with, and then the next logical move was usually pretty obvious. Of course,
luck is not without risk, but if you ignore luck, it will probably have its
way in the end. Always best to go for it, say I.
So, life goes on and is always changing. Like all things, this is good and bad.
We have always tried to retain all the good things from the past and combine
them with any good things that the present brings. Keep the good traditional
values that enhance our lives, not hamper them, add the positive aspects of
all the new tech and science that daily change our lives, while rejecting the
bad uses that some of that tech and science can be put to. I am now in my early
70’s and Lida is only 18 months behind me. However, we still enjoy Skiathos
immensely and try to keep as fit as possible, while recognising that there are
some things that we can no longer do.
Skiathos itself has changed in many ways. It is a tourist island and is very
dependent on that income. An awful lot of development has gone on, again, some
good, some bad. Some of the most beautiful beaches are now dominated by large
hotels or tourist complexes, and it is a pity not to have such easy access to
these beaches as we had before. I don’t think that there is any way I
could get my windsurfing kit down to Banana Beach any more (assuming I was able
to use it!). Still, there are a lot of un-spoilt beaches left, you just have
to make a bit of extra effort to get to them. The magic that I found here is
still here, but you have to dig a bit deeper to find it. Then again, we have
the whole winter to enjoy the island without tourism, when most of the people
in the tavernas and tsipouratheka are locals enjoying spending the fruits of
their labours in the summer. The locals work very hard in the summer; businesses
need to be open 16 hours a day, 7 days a week, and there is barely time to have
an hour or twos nap in the midday heat. Fortunately, we never worked directly
in the tourist industry (although nearly all our income was a spin off from
it) and managed to (mostly) choose our own hours of work.
We definitely feel that we are lucky to be here!